Fifty Shades of Abuse: Julian Assange has been taken & Wikileaks Compromised

Fifty Shades of Abuse: Julian Assange has been taken & Wikileaks Compromised

Got him

They finally got Osama Bin Laden. My husband's death has been avenged, along with the deaths of all the soldiers who fought in the wars against terrorism the past 10 years AND the people who died on Sept. 11th, 2001 And to tell you the truth . If there is one person that.Dislikes my post.Your not a true American .RIP BABY WE GOT HIM

the convol from the Atty

Well as of today I got a letter from the Att0rny.I called,and he wanted a list of what all Brandon has here at home.I had stated that he really had nothing here,aside from the car.That we built together.Well a few days after we arrived back from Dover I had the car put in my name ..Because the truck didn't work all the time.Anyways, while I was in Dover for his landing; I had asked that no matter what the Will says; Please let me keep the car.And I was told ok.Now back to the topic.I guess I was not suppose to get the car in my name.So now not only am I fighting for what should have gone to my kids and I,but I have to fight to keep the one thing of his,that the kids and I have.Its not right in any manner .I have gotten maybe 2-3 emails from his mother.Last she had told me is that she knows more about what was going on in our marrage then I did and wanted to respect his wishes,Which I have not a problem with that at all .However I had asked; if you do know about that,then let me see the will. So I know what his wishes were.I was told she didnt want to share the will to avoid anymore conflict hahah lot of good it did . So as of now we're at this stand still .Really the only ones that have talked to me is his dad and sisters and aunt on his dads side.I will not say I'm heartless at all, but its hard to forgive the nasty deeds being done from someone thats in the same boat as your self.Why is it you can see all the nasty things about people when something this bad happens?I have tried stay the same way maybe even more open then before.But I mean really how can you do that? Now I see that only my friends and I have been there for the kids in this situation.Yet its my kids who are hurting way more then anyone else that has ever known Brandon.I dread the day my kids ask me "Mom why dont we have anything of dads,but pictures". What am I suppose to say to that?How can I be honest about this without bashing anyones name?When they ask "Why did someone else get everything?" I guess all I can say to that, is daddy didnt get a chance to right a wrong.I have never lied to my kids but this is one lie that I might have to tell. Only because I would rather have my kids be upset with me for a brief moment in time, then to have them hate anyone else who is involved in this situation.I feel its the best way for now, until they get older and the truth comes out as it always does.Either way at some point they will know.Yes my husband and I may have had problems in our marrage,but what wife and husband don't.Dispite all that, we were working on it.Not only to better ourselves as individuals but as a unit, and to make life better then how Brandon and I had growing up.Now that he is gone we'll have to move on, yes we cry alot and now we wont even have a shirt to smell,a guitar to play as a way to remember him.Much less the car that my kids could look back on and say,.me, my mom and dad started this and now we will finish it.I mean really peopel what the heck do I do with this?Where do I go?It seems that the only ones that care anything about this is the people that have viewed and follow us on this blog.Dare I say aside from my mother and brother and a few friends here, yall are the ones helping me with the sneeky underhanded selfish shady stuff being done to a good family that will be forever in pain.I mean not only did we loose a big part of the family that my kids will never forget.If they are anything like me,then I pray that they have a kind heart and can say I forgive you for the wrongs you have done .I look at my baby's everyday, and tell them daddy loves them and daddy is proud .When were driving my 3 year old says "MOMMY I SEE DADDY" and hes smiling. I tell her that he smiling because your so pretty and hes so proud of you .I teared up not good while driving .But you know what maybe he is,I don't know. I do know he never intended to hurt us this way.i know the babys were his life, and thats all that mattered.The pain from my kids hearts destroys me a lil bit everyday. Because I cant take that pain away.Yes I am strong. I have to be for them and myself because at the end of the day its them and I, the family that he left behind.

Yesterday was a good day

Havalah  has been looking for a vehicle that is fairly cheap,reliable,and roomy. So far we have been having some fairly good leads hopefully we will find something soon.She has also been looking for a place off post that her and her kids can call home we believe that part may be solved as a mutual friend who was already in the process of trying to sell her house.Well as it turns out the house has 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms which is exactly what Havalah was hoping to find,it is the perfect size for her and her kids.

   We also attended the homecoming for Brandon's platoon.It was a very beautiful ceremony.The announcer for the event asked havalah if she found her soldier yet and she said "No mine wont be coming home but at least all the rest of his unit made it back and thats what matters today."She told me she needed to be there to welcome them home because they deserve a good ceremony and they were the last people to see Brandon.I think it was good for her and allowed her some closure.The kids did not attend as she felt it would be to hard on them.She is such a strong person,It was an honor to stand next to her as she tried to Welcome them home.I know if I was in her position I don't think I could have been there for that.She still tries to be a good Army wife inspite of everything that has happened.

great news this morning

  Havalah didn't check her mail until this morning.In the mail came another copy of the letter she got on Friday, and a check from the government to pay for her a place to live for the next year.She is so excited to know that her and her children will not be homeless anymore.Due to this I recant the statement I had made about Brandon's mom receiving the BAH.I do apologize for misinformation I had reported in my earlier post.Havalah has been looking into a place off post so in a year she wont be forced to move.At this moment she has found a house she is hoping to rent that has a decent amount of space for her and the kids.The kids are are doing pretty good today and things are starting to look up a little bit.Havalah is thinking about getting a dog for her and the kids as well,but that may take a little while.

Latest update for 4/15

   After receiving a letter in the mail today.I was asked to babysit again so Havalah could attempt to meet with the Jag lawyer.According to the letter, Brandon's Will states that his Mother would be granted all his affects that are returning from Iraq.including the presents he bought for his family while he was deployed,His laptop which has special pictures that Havalah had sent to him under the impression only he would see them.Apparently his Mother Christine  has already begun the probate process in Washington without Notifying his next of kin that they should contact the probate lawyer and have the opportunity to contest anything.Havalah would have no way to protect herself and her children had she not received this letter.The lawyer handling Brandon's estate has yet to contact her and considering she has custody of his heir,which is his Biological son,the only male in his family to carry on his fathers name.This should have been one of the first things done or so one would think.

  We still don't know if he claimed his Mother as the sole beneficiary on his SGLI or if the change made to it was him trying to upgrade to the maximum amount.He failed to submit his SGLV 8285 and was unable to verify the appropriate premium was deducted.According to this most recent information, His SGLI will only pay out $200,000; instead of the maximum which would have been $400,000.At this point none of that money will be going to his widow or his children; but to his mother Christine.(The SGLI that I personally seen stated it would be divided up, Awarding his wife 75% and his mother 25%.His mother is claiming that she has an SGLI awarding it all to her,Now thats just not right).

Hmmmmm,Where to start?

So where do I Start?Should I start back over a year ago when they had a little bit of marital issues or should I start after he died? I guess I'll start after his death and slowly fill in the blanks of the past as I go.

 My Best friend Havalah and her family recently lost their Husband,Dad, and Friend of 6 years,in Iraq on March 21,2011.Before he died, her and her husband were in the process of fixing their marriage.They were talking about fixing his car together,going camping,fishing and lots of other things as a family when he returned.His return date was suppose to be about a month give or take after his death,Causing this to impact his family even more.

  As I mentioned they were having a few marital issues so before His deployment he changed his beneficiary of his $400,000.00 Soldier Group Life Insurance Policy to his mom.He also supposedly made a Will leaving all his worldly possessions to his mother as well.(Although this is yet to be confirmed as his Mother refuses to release a copy of it to Havalah. We have reason to believe both of these actions were taken under duress and with his Mother influencing his decisions.) His Mother even received the BAH that is Normally awarded to the spouse for 2 months after a soldiers death. Leaving his wife,2 biological children,and 2 step children virtually homeless.As of the day I write this she now has approximately 2 weeks to out of their house.While Havalah was in Washington burying her husband,A note was left on her door stating Balfour Beatty hadn't received the BAH for the month of March;Which is due at the end of each month.However I believe as long as Havalah can pay March and Aprils rent which equals about $2154.00,And can continue to pay $1077.00 each month she can stay in her house for the remainder of the lease.At which time the Army requires her to move off post.
 
   He was a resident of Georgia,And claimed Havalah and all 4 children on his income tax return for 2010. Which he filed while he was deployed.He deposited the funds into his separate savings account.According to this supposed Will his Mother would be entitled to that as well even though a large chunk of that was earned income tax credit for the children.His Mother has made no attempt to help his family what so ever.In fact the only people from his side of the family that Havalah or her children have heard from is; His Father,His Aunt,His Grandma,And only 1 of his sisters.Since the day she got the tragic news of his loss.


  Havalah has spoken with The Fort Stewart Post Commander,JAG,The VA,And has also contacted Congress for the state of Georgia.Havalah has let it be known that she is contesting Both the Will and The Insurance claims.